Recently, my children’s school started going through a series of talks to protect themselves and others. These are based on a series of traps that criminals, rapists, and pedophiles use to harm people. I will be posting a series of articles related to these “traps”. And, if you’re an adult, do not think that you’re exempt — use your brain — adults can benefit from learning how to protect themselves from these traps too.
The Name Trap is where someone uses your or your child’s name to get their attention, divert their concentration, and gain a subtle form of trust. How do they get your name? For kids it could be name tags that are inadvertently left on or a sport shirt with their name on back. For adults, it could be someone seeing a name tag, glancing at your check in a grocery store line, luggage tag, or more.
The trap then goes something like this:
“Hey (your name), your mom told me to come pick you up. She had an accident at home and had to go to the hospital.”
Notice, the name gets the attention and the “emergency” gets the emotions in gear. When strong emotions kick in, your brain can go out the window. Teach your child to stop and find an adult they know. Do not get close to someone you do not know. Unfortunately, nowadays this includes people dressed in uniforms too. There is a certain amount of authority that comes with seeing someone in a uniform, be it police, service repairmen, or the like. There is often a name tag on the uniformed person, but that is often fake.
This is only one of many subtle traps. Remember, go immediately to someone you know. Tell them about the person you just encountered. If they are in a car, do not get within reach of it. If the person starts to get out of the car, run to someone you know or a crowded place.
There will be more posts like this coming over the days ahead so read and learn. Above all — use your brain!
November 2, 2008
Categories: General, Personal Safety, Self Defense . . Author: eman . Comments: Leave a comment